AFTER 10 TO 15 YEARS OF MARRIAGE( sarcasm )

Still you have to control each other.
Still you spend your emotions with your friends or some what with children.
well main yeh nhi keh rhi ki apne bacchon ke sath samay bitana thik nhi. ya fir bacchon se baatein share karna thik nhi. Par aapko pta hona chahiye unki apni zindgi hai wo kal apne - apne raston pr chal denge . jaise ek din aap chal diye the.
aapke mata pita ne aur aapne mil kr faisla kia k zindgi akele nhi kati ja skati aur aapko ek hamsafar chahiye. aapne usey jeevansathi ka nam dia.
par aapne sirf nam dia.
aap sathi to kabhi ban hi nhi paye.
Saalon bad bhi apko lagta hai k ye sath ,sath nhi hai. Saalon bad bhi aap soch rhe hain ke usey mere khyalon ki,bhavnao ki koi parwah nhi hai.
TO ISME AAPKI HI GALTI HAI. Ap us layak kabhi ban hi nhi paye ki koi aapko man mandir me ese rkhe jese andh bhkt. Aapko jab uske khyalon ka dhyan nhi to yakin maniye chahe koi aapke liye lakh vrat kar le , par un vraton se sath to paya ja skta hai par pyar nhi.
Jyada dur na jaiye, apne ghar parivar me dekhiye, apne mata pita ko dekhiye , chacha chachi , mam mami ko dekhiye.
Dekhiye aadmiyon ke chehre kitne khile rhte hain ye dikhakr k unki biwi kabu me hai, aur auraton ke ye dikhakr ki wo kitni layak biwiyan hain,ki unke pati unki sunte hain,unki baat man bhi lete hain.
Par isme bhi zra gaur farmayein pati naamak prani ki achhai pr to kisi ka dhyan hi nhi gya. Pati ne bhi kaha k biwi achhi mili, Biwi ne bhi kaha main sati savitri ki trh rhi aur pati par aanch n aane di, Isliye pati mere. BECHARE PATI KHUD DUSRE PATIYON NE UNHE IS LAYAK NA SAMJHA KI USEY KEH DETE KI TUM JESA PATI KISI KO MIL JAYE TO BHAGYA KHUL JAYE.
(wese is dunia me ese chamtkari pati bhi hain, aur by chance jitne bhi hain wo sabhi famous hain aur unki fan following bhi hai. wrna baki sb to kahan se aaye kahan dafan hain unke gharwalon ko bhi nhi pata)
{bura na mano, par budhape mein jab pati retirement ki roti todta hai wo bhi bina income ke to sari zindgi kam karne wali wo biwiyan jinhe housewife kehte hain- matalb jo taumra kam krti hain fir bhi kaha yhi jata hai ki wo ghar mein rehti hain....jo sunati hain na,, ke kaan mein bawaseer ho jaye}
shayd aapko koi yad aa gya ho ?
nahi aya!
tab to yar tum badi khubsurat dunia mein rehte ho swarg mein shayad.
ya tume dunia ko wese hi dekhne ki aadat hai,jesa hr insan dekhta hai.
khrab chizon mein bhi jo achhai dhund le wo mahan hai.
par jo galat hota dekhkr apna nazariya hi wesa kar le ,usey ap kya kahenge?
Isliye agr ape aapko kuch bhi sabit karna hai n to sbse phle apne mata pita ko sabit karo. Fir usey jise adha hissa banaya.
kyunki agar aadhe hisse par paralysis ho jaye na to aap khud jante ho aap kis layak ho.
Zindgi me kuch chizen kuchh samay ke liye hi hoti hain unhe usi samay na paya to akbhi dobara nhi milegei.
Par asli zindgi 10 din ya 10 mahine ki nhi hai. Usey aur 30-50 sal jeena hai. Usey adhura nahi jee sakte ap.
adhuri zindgi kisi kam ki nahi.
Main apne inse hmesha kehti hun. Main zindgi me jo bhi karna chahti hun karungi par usey hmare liye karna chahti hun. Isliye nhi ke sab krte hain to mujhe bhi karna hai. ISLIYE K SABSE PEHLE SIRF TUM SE MATLAB HAI.
JIS DIN TAK TUM SECONDARY RAHOGE HUM SATH HOKAR BHI SATH NHI HONGE.
BACCHON KA KYA HAI, KAL HUM BHI SIRF KISI KE BACCHE THE, KAL HAMARE BHI BACCHE HONGE. UNHE TO CHHODNA HI HAI.
SATH SIRF DO LOG HONGE TO THIK.
NAHI TO SHADI KA KOI ASTITVA NHI.

For true happiness, two things must occur simultaneously:

1. You must love someone unconditionally and wish to share the remainder of your life together.
2. This person must feel the same way about you.

If you are not currently in a relationship that is loving, joyful, spontaneous, and satisfying, then your life is out of kilter. You should be with a person who not only loves you, but who cares for you, respects you, and wants to be with you out of heart not by customs.